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Anti-patterns

  • Vague asks: “Would love to connect” with no reason.
  • Bait-and-switch: “Just advice” → “Actually, can you refer me?” in the same call.
  • Attachment overload: 7MB resume + portfolio + slide deck on first contact.
  • Spray-and-pray: same generic message to 50 people (someone will screenshot it).
  • Calendar link first message: feels transactional; earn it.
  • Negging yourself: “Sorry to bother you” x3. Be respectful, not apologetic.